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Attachment Based Therapy

Learn your relational roadmap and attachment style to break free from old patterns and create the love you deserve.
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What is Attachment Based Therapy?

Humans are wired for connection. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how your earliest bonds with caregivers shape the way you connect, love, and relate as an adult.

These early experiences teach you what safety, love, and trust feel like,  or what it feels like when they’re missing. If those bonds were inconsistent, distant, or overwhelming, it’s common to develop patterns of anxiety, avoidance, or fear in relationships.

This approach helps you understand your relational roadmap with compassion, offering insight into why you may pull away, overextend, or fear being too much. Through awareness and gentle exploration, you can begin to rebuild safety, trust, and emotional closeness from the inside out.

Why you might be here

When Connection Feels Unpredictable or Unsafe

These challenges often come from early experiences where love or attention felt inconsistent, neglectful or overbearing, resulting in a ruptured sense of safety with the relationships closest to you.

It can help if you’re struggling with:

  • Ongoing relationship conflict or disconnection
  • Anxiety, depression, or low self-worth
  • Emotional avoidance or fear of closeness
  • Patterns of people-pleasing or self-abandonment
  • Difficulty trusting or feeling secure in relationships

How Therapy Helps

Rewriting the Blueprint for Connection

Our earliest relationships shape how we see ourselves and others. Therapy offers a space to explore these patterns with compassion, not blame. We’ll uncover the roots of your attachment wounds and help you regulate your emotions, communicate needs, and build the trust you’ve always deserved.

You’ll learn to:

  • Identify and understand your attachment style
  • Recognize triggers and patterns in relationships
  • Develop emotional regulation tools to stay grounded
  • Practice communication that fosters closeness and safety
  • Rebuild trust in yourself and others
  • Strengthen your sense of self-worth within connection

The Outcome

Repair. Reconnect. Thrive.

With time, you’ll begin to feel more secure in yourself and your relationships. The fear of being too much or not enough softens as you experience emotional safety and stability, both within yourself and with others. Your future self will thank you.

You can expect to:

  • Gain self-awareness of your relational patterns
  • Learn conflict-resolution and resilience skills
  • Strengthen trust and self-compassion
  • Communicate needs clearly and confidently
  • Build secure, fulfilling relationships grounded in mutual respect
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Attachment Based Therapy is for you if you...

Feel balanced between independence and connection.

Trust that others can meet your emotional needs.

Communicate feelings without fear of rejection.

Build emotional resilience during relational conflict.

Set and honor boundaries with confidence.

Heal from fear of abandonment or closeness.

Develop secure self-esteem and self-worth.

Cultivate relationships that feel mutual and safe.

Live with a sense of inner calm and relational stability.

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Our Attachment Based Therapists

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is a counselling approach that focuses on how early relationships shape your emotions, self-esteem, and connections with others. By addressing attachment patterns with a therapist, it supports healing past wounds and developing healthier, more secure relationships in your adult lives.

How does attachment-based therapy work?

This therapy helps you identify your attachment style—secure, anxious, avoidant, or disorganized—and explore how it affects your current relationships. With guidance from an attachment specialized therapist, you process past experiences, build new emotional awareness, and learn healthier ways to trust, connect, and relate.

What is attachment-based therapy used for?

Attachment therapy is effective for anxiety, depression, low self-worth, trauma recovery, and relationship struggles. In Vancouver and across BC, many of our clients seek attachment-based counselling to break old patterns, improve intimacy, and feel more confident in forming secure bonds.

What happens in an attachment therapy session?

Sessions typically last 50–60 minutes. Your therapist may invite you to reflect on early family experiences, notice current relationship patterns, and practice new ways of connecting. Our process at Gather & Ground is paced gently to ensure you feel supported, safe, and respected at all times.

How does attachment therapy help relationships?

Attachment-based therapy improves relationships by addressing the root causes of trust issues, conflict, or emotional disconnection. By healing old patterns and creating a stronger sense of security, clients at Gather & Ground often experience healthier communication, deeper intimacy, and more stable partnerships. We have witnessed hundreds of people make incredible shifts in their attachment styles, and you can too!

How long does attachment-based therapy take?

The timeline depends on your personal goals and history. Some clients notice change within a few months, while others choose longer-term therapy to explore deeper attachment patterns. Your therapist will collaborate with you to set a pace that feels safe and effective, which is tailored to your individual history and needs.

Is attachment-based therapy evidence-based?

Yes. Attachment theory is supported by decades of psychological research with evidence to show how early bonds influence lifelong well-being. Attachment-based therapy applies this research in counselling, making it a proven method for improving relationships and emotional health.

Is attachment-based therapy covered by insurance in BC?

Many extended health plans in British Columbia cover sessions with a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), Canadian Certified Counsellors (CCC), and Registered Social Workers (RSW). It’s best to confirm directly with your provider. Our Vancouver clinic issues detailed receipts to make the reimbursement process simple and stress-free

Who can benefit from attachment-based therapy?

Anyone struggling with trust, intimacy, self-esteem, or avoidance can benefit. It is also effective for couples and families in BC who want to repair relationship patterns, strengthen bonds, or learn how to support one another more effectively. Attachment Therapist at G&G help couples and individuals reach their highest potential in their relationships.

Is attachment-based therapy available in Vancouver and BC?

Yes. Our counselling clinic is based in Vancouver and offers attachment-based therapy online. We serve clients throughout British Columbia—including Victoria, Kelowna, Kamloops, and smaller communities—through secure virtual sessions. Our goal is to offer accessible and reliable care!

What results can I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Our clients often report greater self-awareness, improved emotional regulation, more satisfying relationships, and breaking free from relational patterns that have held them back from the love they deeply desire. Over time, therapy can reduce anxiety, build confidence, and help you form secure, supportive bonds that last.

How do I find an attachment-based therapist in Vancouver or BC?

Look for a Registered Clinical Counsellor, Psychologist, or Social Worker trained in attachment theory and attachment-based approaches. At our Vancouver counselling practice, this is our top specialization and we provide sessions online across BC!

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